Fear of Rejection with Kute Blackson

I have to tell you, rejection seems to be the issue I've been dealing with the most lately. It has come up over and over and over again in many different forms. One type of rejection that I've had to face has very much to do with the Spiritual path I'm walking. It's hard not to take it personally especially when it comes from people you care about. It is no coincidence that I recently found this video. I love Kute's messages and he's someone you should take a minute to check out. Ironically, most of what he says in this video - I already knew. A lot of this has come through messages from people's Angels and Guides. I guess sometimes you just have to hear it from someone in the physical form ;) 

• "No one can reject you unless you give them that power. No one can truly reject YOU, they can only reject who they think you are. All they reject is their own idea."
  
• "Who have you learned you needed to be in order to get love?"
  
• "It’s your ego that feels rejected because you may be tightly holding onto a position or a way that you perceive yourself to be. The tighter you hold onto what you perceive yourself to be, the more you may feel the need to defend “yourself” and likely feel rejected, as other people think negatively or have differing opinions about you."
  
• "The more you love and accept yourself as you are, the less you will care what others think, and the less you will need others acceptance."
  

What I'm taking from this: the rejection I've been facing is a mirror of what I'm rejecting in myself. I love this path I'm on, but a part of me is still fighting it. It can seem scary to be the REAL YOU. But, the dejection, the fright, the worry - that's the ego. What a HUGE lesson. People aren't rejecting ME, they're rejecting some belief they hold about me or they're rejecting beliefs that I hold that aren't in alignment with theirs.

The lesson my friends: if you're feeling the sting of rejection - is it mirroring something you reject inside yourself? If it stings, odds are high that it does and now you have an indicator of what you need to work on. If the rejection is reflecting something about the other person, then acknowledge that to yourself and send them love and blessings.  - Adrienne :)